I lust you. xoxo. I lust you too.

A friend once wrote to me:

"True love remains pure. Eventually, you will have problems in your relationship with your boyfriend if you're thoughts or actions are impure. If your relationship is based on lust instead of love, it's bound to fail. Lust can damage even the truest love and corrupt even the closest soulmates. If you really want a wonderful relationship with your boyfriend, you will have a pure relationship with him.

Lust, at its very heart, is self-centered. Yet love is other-centered. Love is patient, love is kind; it is not self-seeking. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

How can you really love someone if you're focused on meeting your own desires? Now, that sounds pretty good. But is it really true? Let me give you some examples on why lust corrupts true love. First of all, if you are lusting after your boyfriend, you are really wanting to use him for your own benefit. Eventually he is going to get sick of that. If you continue, the pattern of lusting after him to fulfill your own needs and wishes, he's going to resent you instead. Nobody likes being used. Nobody likes being controlled and manipulated. And you can guarantee that your bf will hate it too. Second of all, if you are trying to love your boyfriend by meeting his demands for physical contact, you are really just feeding his lust. I will be so bold to guess that 100% of guys striggle with lust, some more than others. When you hug your bf, you may be thinking, "Oh, what a sweetie!". But he's thinking, "What a hot body!". The tiniest of things can send a whole guy's body flaming with lust, and the girl has no idea. That's why, even if you don't struggle with lust, you should be really careful.

You may think, "My bf wants to kiss me because he loves me". That may be true. People who are in-love want to express that love in physical ways. But you'll be able to tell if he really loves you if he wwants to keep your relationship pure more than he wants to kiss you. REAL love wants the best for the other person."

Lust, lust, lust. So much for the word LUST eh? Hahaha. When I first read this, I was like, "Grabe, how many more lusts can this can get pa?" Kung di pa kayo nagsawa sa lustlustlust na yan, ewan ko na. Haha. But anyway, it is a good piece of words. Very nice.

Oh, this wasn't an advice ha? I wasn't having the lustcapades back then. My friend just wanted to let me know these. So there you go. Thanks friend! :)